Sunday, December 9, 2012

Review: Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher

Thirteen Reasons Why
by Jay Asher
Release Date: October 18, 2007
2007 Razorbill
Softcover Edition; 304 Pages
ISBN: 978-1-59514-188-0
ASIN: B0054R6BFM
Genre: Young Adult Fiction
Source: Razorbill

4 Stars

Summary
Clay Jensen returns home from school to find a mysterious box with his name on it lying on his porch. Inside he discovers thirteen cassette tapes recorded by Hannah Baker, his classmate and crush who committed suicide two weeks earlier.


On tape, Hannah explains that there are thirteen reasons why she decided to end her life. Clay is one of them. If he listens, he'll find out how he made the list.

My Thoughts
First of all, before I get into the nitty gritty of my review, I do have to mention that I did really like Thirteen Reasons Why, and that it did make an impression on me, and that I did think about it for quite a while after I finished reading it.  I work with teenagers on a daily basis, and mental health, suicide, and depression are huge issues that adolescents face today and as professionals, we are constantly dealing with them on a regular basis and incorporating them into our regular plans as much as possible in order to open up communication with regards to these issues.  And they are HUGE!!!  One of the big criticisms I read over this book was how did everyone around Hannah miss the warning signs about her impending suicide, but sometimes the clues are so small and so well-hidden that even trained professionals can miss them. And I may get flack over this comment, but unless you work on a regular basis with this age group, for hours on end, then you may not understand what it is really like.

Personally, I liked to duality of the storytelling, first hearing Hannah's point of view, then hearing Clay's comments from a different perspective.  It was interesting hearing the two sides of the story and somewhat sad as well, knowing what the final outcome was.  I tended to be far more empathetic towards Clay's pain than I was towards Hannah's pain, but I wonder, looking back, if that was actually intentional on the author's part.  I never felt that the author was setting out to make Hannah the victim, but was just telling her story and sharing with the readers the pain from someone who was left behind.  Often with suicide, we don't know why the person chose to kill himself/herself and friends and family are often left wondering why, but here Hannah left her reasons for why she did it and sent the tapes to everyone involved.  This is where I get to some of the issues in this novel however, as Hannah had to deal with rumours about her, people touching her without her permission due to the rumours, rape issues, and people not really willing to get to know the real her or using her for her reputation. 

I am wondering why she would have sent them to Clay, why she would have been him through an agony like this, when he did nothing wrong,  And poor Tony, to put that kind of pressure on him, and to make him a kind of watch-person for the others who had to listen to the tapes.  And why make the tapes in the first place?  What was her intention with that as it never really said? Was it make the other people's lives miserable and to ruin their lives like she thought hers was ruined?  Personally, as a professional, I think it sets a bad precedent and I hope that others don't read too much into this and try to copy this method of "tying up loose ends", so to speak.  I realize this is not what the author intended, but it sort of left a bad taste in my mouth, even if I liked the way the novel was set up.  Does any of this make any sense?  My other concern was Hannah's interaction with her parents was very limited and we know absolutely nothing about her relationship with them.  Did they receive the tapes too?  How much did they contribute to Hannah's sense of isolation and desolation?  This is an area that I thought was extremely lacking in this novel as parents play such a huge in this stage of development and there was barely any mention of them.

As for the suicide itself, even I found myself waiting for the "big" moment when something really bad must have happened for Hannah to want to take her life, but when that didn't happen I thought about the effect of all of these things on a personality and realized how it could affect people differently.  One of the things we have to keep in mind is that everyone is different and what would slide of my shoulders, could affect someone else far differently.  It's not always the big things that cause people to commit suicide, but sometimes the piling on of everything that people just can't shrug off anymore and if that person suffers from depression on top of it, it sets up a situation of despair and desolation.  I was somewhat critical of the hair comment in the novel, as students constantly change their look and while it would be noticed, it happens so often that I would not necessarily note it as a suicide watch-for.  Perhaps the author was trying to point out that it's not always the big things but the small constant things and we should look out for each other.  What bothered me the most is the fact that nobody seemed to be talking about it afterwards.  And this is often the case now, isn't it? Let's sweep it under the rug, until the next time, and perhaps this is what Hannah was trying to avoid with her tapes.

Verdict
Thirteen Reasons Why is one of those novels that many people should read even if all it does is being up discussion points about a really serious issue.  Even if it doesn't affect you personally, but it does help one person who sees himself/herself in these pages and that person can reach out to somebody for help, then it has done its job.  I really feel that the author has made a point that it's not for us to judge what makes a person suicidal but to reach out to those who might be in trouble, to sympathize, to empathize, and to help. 




4 comments:

  1. Hi Stephanie,
    I agree with your review. I read this book over 2 years ago and I still think about it. I thought it was creative, sad and sooooo good. I too, work with teenagers and my son has been suicidal. For some teens it is just a feeling of hopelessness that pushes them over the edge. This is a must read for everyone! It is so thought provoking.

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  2. It sounds like this might be a good book club read as there would be lots of discussion. It's sad that you hear of so many teenagers struggling with this. Is it getting worse, or did we just not hear about it so much in the past?
    Ann

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    1. I personally think it was something we didn't talk about in the past like we do today. Mental health and wellness definitely was not the huge issue in the schools like it is today and I feel it is something that does need to be discussed. Perhaps so many students wouldn't have felt so isolated if it was more in the open.

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  3. Good review. That's a very tough subject to take on.

    I think it's something that wasn't talked about nearly as much in the past, and there's still that residual stigma about it.

    For those of us who have known someone who's taken their life, that kind of experience will always stay with us.

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